The Complete Guide to Being the Best Dressed Wedding Guest

      Are you attending a wedding soon? Maybe even several? I can relate. While my social calendar has shifted to kids' birthday parties lately, there was a time not too long ago when I was invited to numerous weddings each year, racking up over 50 in total. Black-tie? I know it well. Cocktail? We’re close. Beach-chic? I’m all over it! When it comes to dress codes and how to navigate them, I've experienced and mastered it all, and today, I aim to help you succeed too. Drawing from my background as an experienced party guest and my current role as a professional shopper, I'm providing you with the ultimate guide to mastering wedding guest attire this summer and beyond. From dresses suitable for every dress code to the bags, shoes, and jewelry—both timeless and trendy—that pair perfectly, you’ll find everything you need to look fabulous and feel confident.

      Let’s discuss gowns and long dresses. Depending on the venue and the wording on the invitation, you might opt for dressier options with structured bodices and longer hemlines or go for a more casual feel with something like a slip dress or ankle-length style. Personally, I tend to choose black for gown investments since I can wear them again and again without drawing too much attention, but the trending burgundy and butter-yellow options are hard to overlook. Whatever you decide, ensure it feels fitting for the celebration and shows that you made an effort for the happy couple.

      Now, let's get into the fun part. If the invitation indicates cocktail or semiformal attire, anything from mini to midi dresses is appropriate. For a casual event, I’d recommend still going for a dress or a coordinated set, but maybe pair it with more relaxed shoes and accessories. If there’s a specific theme or it's location-based, don’t hesitate to ask the couple or their friends for clarification—there’s no harm in that! When it comes to beach or vacation-themed events, I like to incorporate playful prints or colors and take the climate and overall vibe into account when selecting my outfit. Remember, no shoulder pads at the beach!

      This is where we can enjoy some creativity—or keep it simple! I see two types of bags you might consider for weddings and events. First, there are the classic black, metallic, or neutral choices that suit any dress in your wardrobe, and then there are those that make a statement and elevate your outfit. A colorful bag can breathe new life into an old black gown, while a chic shell clutch can make a plain dress feel perfect for the seaside. You might want both or perhaps just one; regardless, I've got options for you.

      As for jewelry, if you’re investing in pieces, they shouldn't be limited to just one outfit or occasion. Whether you spend $100 or $1000, choose items you'd enjoy wearing regardless of trends or upcoming events. This way, when it’s time to dress up, you’ll have options that you genuinely love. Did a cocktail watch catch your eye? Have you always envisioned a tennis necklace? Or are statement earrings more your style? Whatever it is, stick with classic, timeless pieces that resonate with you, and you'll find yourself reaching for them repeatedly.

      Now, let’s talk shoes! There’s a lot to consider, and I sometimes find it challenging myself. Above all, comfort is crucial. Weddings can be lengthy, and you don’t want to be struggling with your shoes or taking them off early in the night. You also need to think about the venue. Is there grass or sand? Should your footwear be more casual or very formal? And consider the dress—does it call for something bold, or do you need something understated? It’s tricky without knowing all the details, so aim for a couple of options in both categories below.

      This article was previously published and has since been revised.