Understanding Fall Wedding Guest Dress Codes: From Festive Formal to City Hall
Anny Choi serves as a Who What Wear Editor in Residence, a stylist, a creative brand consultant, and is the founder of the bridal styling studio Anny Choi Brides. The fall wedding season has arrived, and with RSVPs completed, it's time to focus on the next significant task: selecting the ideal outfit. In contrast to spring and summer weddings—where floral dresses and lightweight linens are nearly foolproof—autumn weddings require more careful consideration regarding dress codes. As a bridal stylist, I frequently encounter (and sometimes help create) dress codes that span from cocktail attire in sunset colors to extravagant white tie and everything in between. The most debated among them is the black tie optional, a dress code that creates uncertainty for guests. Below, you'll find an overview of the most prevalent wedding dress codes and suggestions for looking your best as a guest.
With an increasing number of couples choosing to elope or hold small city hall celebrations, the key to dressing appropriately is to keep it simple. A chic skirt suit from Khaite is a sophisticated choice you can wear again, while an elevated scarf minidress from Dôen achieves a stylishly dressed-up look effortlessly. If you're unsure, a classic little black dress paired with eye-catching accessories is always a safe bet. Shop "City Hall Chic" Pieces.
Khaite
Silvannah Wool and Silk Blazer
Khaite
Jett Wool and Silk Miniskirt
Dôen
Millane Dress in Cardinale Foulard
STAUD
Stella Cotton-Blend Faille Halterneck Maxi Dress
When the dress code specifies modern cocktail, consider a sleek two-piece set or a jumpsuit. While many think a minidress is the standard for cocktail attire, it's more about the formality level than the hemline. For an evening event, opt for a corset-and-skirt set with a satin finish by Wiederhoeft, while a bold printed dress from Oscar de la Renta will stand out at an earlier celebration. Shop "Modern Cocktail" Pieces.
Wiederhoeft
Wasp Cotton-Silk Corset Top
Wiederhoeft
Wasp Cotton-Silk Midi Skirt
MANGO
Jumpsuit With Asymmetrical Neck and Bow
Oscar de la Renta
Cow-Printed Cocktail Dress
As for weddings occurring during the holiday season, the dress code may suggest festive formal. This is a notch above cocktail but not quite black tie—an ideal compromise for couples wanting their guests in elegant attire without mandating tuxedos. My advice? Embrace the glamour. Luxurious velvet, rich embroidery, and thoughtful layering are crucial for achieving a wedding guest outfit that feels festive. Shop "Festive Formal" Pieces.
DES_PHEMMES
Floral Embroidered Slip Dress
MANGO
Jacquard V-Neck Dress
Chloé
Cotton Velvet Jacket
Chloé
Ruffled Silk Long Dress
No dress code causes more confusion than black tie optional. Like formal attire, it typically suggests that tuxedos aren't mandatory, though men should wear a tie for a polished appearance. Generally, floor-length gowns are preferred—unless you can elevate a shorter dress with eye-catching details. A classic black gown from Heirlome is a wise investment for those attending multiple weddings. If gowns aren't your style, a striking set from Simone Rocha will ensure you stand out among the dresses. Shop "Black Tie Optional" Pieces.
Nili Lotan
Ira Leopard-Print Silk Gown
SIMONE ROCHA
Unraveling Ribbon Lace-Up Frayed Brocade Top
SIMONE ROCHA
Unraveling Ribbon Lace-Up Frayed Brocade Midi Skirt
When you add "creative" to the black-tie dress code, the possibilities become endless. Favored by the fashion crowd, this dress code encourages guests to dress to their highest standard—whatever that means for each person. I adore the idea of showing up in a stunning Colleen Allen opera coat for maximum impact. If you're short on time, a classic satin-trimmed tuxedo by Co paired with vintage brooches and pins creates a timeless yet distinctive look for a wedding guest. Shop "Creative Black Tie" Pieces.
Co
Satin-Trim Single-Breasted Tuxedo Jacket
Co
Tuxedo Pants in Wool and Silk
Colleen Allen
Victorian Shaped Coat
Clio Peppiatt
Cora Embellished Sheer Tulle Gown
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